There is no general amount of sex that is normal in all relationships. The number of times two partners should have sex is dependent on their sexual drive. It’s dependent on how many times two partners want to have sex.
Most couples have sex between one time a day to one time a week. Some couples are really happy having sex only once in a month, while some are dissatisfied.
Once you are your partner are sexually satisfied with your frequency, then that’s normal for both of you. When there is sexual drive mismatch, problem can arise when one partner is not as motivated to have sex as the other.
I feel sharing what people have to say about their sexual relationship might be nice.
David says, “We have been married for over twenty-five years. The kids are older. We make love each other morning. We wake early for it. This was and remains my wife’s initiative.”
Solopro says, “My wife and I have been together for 20+ years. We have been married for 4 years. Kids are all moved out and now we are enjoying our life. I love my wife to death and am not a sex addict but enjoy intimacy with my wife. I’m okay with making love 2 to 3 times a week.”
Sneha says, “I am 23 years old,and I have a boyfriend who is 27 years old. We meet once in 3 months for about 3 days max. And my guy wants lots and lots of sex and when we meet we have sex 10 times a day, this might seem abnormal, but i too love sex a lot but not as much as he does, but i have to accompany him. He will hardly give a break of 5 mins and start again. He says no one can satisfy his sex drive like I do, he is very happy that I bare him and enjoy sex 10 times a day and am also happy that I satisfy him.”
Jo says, “My husband and I have been with each other for ten years since our mid 20s. I have to say that nothing has changed in the bedroom, the sex is still out of this world. When we first started having sex he rocked me like no other, we spent the first 24 hours in a room exploring one another. After moving in with one another it’s still great he can go for 1-2 hours full on intercourse and foreplay is about a half hour, we still 10 years later have sex in the morning and at night for a minimum of an hour or more.”