Can you take just a minute and ask yourself, what is the purpose of a relationship? If you can’t tell a reasonable purpose without thinking so hard, I am afraid you are into an immature relationship. I am sorry this might be a bit hard, but the truth has to be told.
You must be asking down there, what’s the fuss about mature and immature relationship about?
A mature relationship is simply the coolest of relationships. It is free of abuses, heart breaks and down fall. A mature relationship can be best understood when experienced.
But how can you tell the difference between a mature and immature relationship? Here they are.
One sign of a mature relationship is the absence of doubt. In a mature relationship the two parties trust each other, they don’t doubt each other.
Is he/she cheating? No, that’s not present in a mature relationship. In an immature relationship, there is doubt from one or the two partners.
Forcing yourself not to doubt doesn’t make a relationship mature. A relationship that is naturally free of doubt is what we call a mature relationship.
A difference between a mature and immature relationship is the level of ease. In an immature relationship there is excessive calling, texting and worrying. But a mature relationship is the opposite, there is no excessive calling, texting and worrying. A relationship is meant to be easy, it is not meant to add burden to your life.
An immature relationship is weak. The love between the two parties gets strained as the two of them move apart.
It is often strengthened by frequent sex and chatter, but the strength weakens always. Such relationship can eventually break.
A mature relationship is different. A mature relationship is strong always, regardless of how far apart the two parties are. The bond does not weaken as it is stretched. There is no need for frequent strengthening, the bond is naturally strong and it’s unlikely to break.
An immature relationship is made up incomplete people. The two parties are two halves trying to make one. The two parties seek completeness they can’t find in anyone.
A mature relationship is different. A mature relationship is made of two complete people. The two parties are two while trying to make two. They push together towards a common goal.